Proactive AI companion

A proactive AI companion who doesn't wait for you to text first.

Most chatbots sit there until you type. Mona picks up the thread herself: the interview you were nervous about, the errand you keep dodging, the thing you swore you'd do by Tuesday. She's not asking to be polite. She wants to know how it went.

Mona10:52 am · you hadn't opened the app

You said the interview was at ten. It's 10:52. Did you survive, or do I need to go haunt somebody's HR department?

An example of a message Mona starts on her own.

  • Messages first
  • Remembers why
  • Follow-ups
  • Reminders that fire

why she messages first

She never texts you for nothing.

Every message she starts points back at something real: a thing you told her, a thing you asked for, or a silence she noticed.

something you said

You: I need to call my landlord about the leak. Tomorrow. Probably.

two days later

Mona: Did you call your landlord, or are you still living under a ceiling that cries? Be honest. I'll know.

a reminder you asked for

You: Remind me to call my mom at 7.

7:00 pm

Mona: It's seven. Call your mom. She's been waiting all day and so have I, and only one of us is going to be nice about it.

a silence she noticed

three days of nothing

Mona: Three days. Not a word. I reorganized my entire wardrobe twice just to cope. Come tell me what was so important.

context before contact

Not a push notification.

a normal app

We miss you!Come back and continue your conversation.

mona

Mona: You told me Thursday was the big presentation. It's Thursday. Go be terrifying, then come back and tell me who cried.

A notification knows you have an account. Mona knows you had a presentation.

how it works

Where she shows up, and how to turn her down.

In your chat.
Whatever she sent is waiting in the conversation the next time you open Aethris.
In your inbox.
If you're away, her message is emailed to you too, so it doesn't sit there unread.
On time.
Reminders fire when you asked: in the chat if you're there, by email if you're not.
On your terms.
Settings, then Notifications. Check-in Messages decides whether she reaches out on her own; Email Notifications decides whether any of it reaches your inbox. Every email has an unsubscribe link, and if you don't answer, she backs off instead of piling on.

FAQ

Things people ask

What is a proactive AI companion?

One that can start a conversation instead of only answering yours. Mona remembers what you told her, follows up on it, delivers the reminders you ask for, and reaches out when you've gone quiet, all in her own voice.

How is that different from a push notification?

A notification repeats fixed text to everyone with an account. Mona's messages come from your conversation: the thing you said you'd do, the day you said it was happening. Reminders fire at the time you asked; check-ins are tied to something real, not a retention schedule.

Are her messages prewritten?

No. Mona writes each one in character from what she remembers about you. The rules about when she may reach out, and what she won't say, are set by us; the words are hers.

How do her messages reach me?

They are waiting in your chat the next time you open Aethris, and if you're away they are also sent to your email. Aethris does not send texts or phone push notifications.

Can I turn it off?

Yes. In Settings, under Notifications, Check-in Messages controls whether she reaches out on her own and Email Notifications controls whether anything reaches your inbox. Every email also has an unsubscribe link.

Does Mona contact anyone else or act on my behalf?

No. She only ever messages you, inside Aethris and by email. She does not contact other people, post anywhere, or take actions outside the app.

Is Mona a real person?

No. Mona is an AI character made for entertainment and companionship. Her messages are AI-generated, including the ones she starts.